Second Chance

i''m currently reading a novel called "KELABU" to fill my semester break.. yeah.. 3 weeks without seeing any IPBA's friends.. anyway.. in that novel, i've come across these words.. 

second chance

do you believe in second chance ? i do believe in second chance.. i dunno.. yeah, people make mistakes.. its up to us whether to forgive or not.. most people choose to forgive but not to forget. i'm one of it.. it all depends on the situation and that particular person.. if someone who's very close to me, i somehow will give him/her the second chance for the sake of friendship.. as far as what i've gone through, its hard to built a concrete friendship.. thus, it goes the same to break it... refer to the saying up there.. i still remember what my friend said.. if we literally hate that somebody, just think about what he/she have done best for us.. coz we don't even know if one day, there will be a turn over.. hate is a strong word tho.. 

well, back to the second chance thing, in that novel, the hero is a very handsome man who loves photography, anak dato' and turn to be a player after his heart was broken into pieces.. the hero refused to give his ex a second chance.. even the ex has change to a better person.. well, as human, he still have that sekelumit feeling towards his ex.. it just that the anger,pride and ego which prevent him from accepting the second chance..

at first i was about to agree coz yeah.. dah kne buang kan.. watpe nk terhegeh-hegeh blk kan? i believe that we don't live by the pass kan.. reflection is a must but moving on is supposed to be the forte rite.. same goes when we we are driving.. which one is easy ? making a u-turn or just take the simple turn? 

again. come to think of it, everyone makes mistakes.. most of the time we decided to live with the mistakes. sometimes, we're given a room to turn back and correct what was wrong. there is no shame in turning back especially when living in regret and guilt is too hurtful. thus, giving others the second chance is like a golden moment of one's life.. for example, in a singing competition, u r being kicked out during the first round bcoz u cracked ur voice while singin', then, somebody who is still in da competition pulling back and the producer offered u to be in da competition again.. i'm sure u r going to better than the first round right? u won't spoiled the second chance rite? 

if the first one went wrong, obviously there's room for improvement. that is the concept of second chance. what i think? forgive is a must.. forget is a choice...